Thrston County Familiy Court

Every time I feel my self driving to that part of Tumwater I get sick in my stomach. 

I had to go there today.  I have a court case on Mar 26 about my children.  I will be out of state during this time and not able to attend.  When I first went up to the ladies at the window; they told me there is no way to change it.  I can simply go upstairs and talk to another female and they can schedule a telephonic trial.

I went up stairs and talked to the lady upstairs.  She said I would have to sit on my phone from 830 to possibly 1130.  I asked her why it is not possible to switch dates.   She said I just need to go downstairs. 

I went down stairs and talked to the same lady as I did 10 mins prior and she had no idea who I was.  She then got another person who said that I can fill out a piece of paper to make an motion to change the date.  Then I need to pay money to file it.  If it get rejected because it is type wrong it will be additional 15$.  Then I will need to pay to have a certified copy go to Melinda.

So I asked when I get this all done will I be presenting testimony on the day I ask for it to be changed or on the new date?

... she says you will not get to anymore testimony because the judgement has already been made against you.  So in my Dissolution of Marriage and in this case both .. I will never be able to present my side.  Not that anyone would care.

I truly hate this court house and this system and how far it can be bent against a person who has no means to defend himself.

I think its times to finish the letters to my kids.


It is just this simple.  She asked for the order .. when she is ready for me to see the kids she will ask for it to be removed.

I cant keep fighting this .. it is killing me inside.  My only reason for life is denied to me by her.