Whats in a name?

I dont get it.  At least I dont get it yet.  Why change the name?

Robert just fired all his Crossfit instructors at his gym.  I do not claim to know the ins and outs of the whole argument but sometimes a small business is a hard thing to run as a friendly person.  he saw a need so he did the deed.  I dont blame him for doing so I may have very will did the same thing.  But after that the issue of the name of Crossfit Olympia cam into play.  I guess when he had his employee get the business license from Crossfit it somehow gave her the rights over the name of that "gym" entity.

So easy fix.  I guess he just changed the name.  people enjoy the same great workout no one really cares what the name is do they?

But what happens when a name changes you?

I met a Mindy Crump once.  I asked her to be my wife and she became a Mindy Reese.  When she divorced me she became a Melinda Crump.  Hell she even changed her middle name so its no longer the same as her fathers.

But why change?

When Melinda was young in the marriage her photobucket got hacked (or she might of left it unlocked and anyway nudes are floating around the internet of her as ###########.  So I guess I could understand why she would want to change her name for that maybe; but in reality she had nothing to be embarrassed about.  When she was young she was quiet attractive.  I could also understand she doesnt want that name associated with her Career at Armada too.  But in reality do most people in busnisess ever stalk people like that and would it really change their perception of her?  Hell she flirt with alot of her clients just to get business .. I really dont think them knowing of pics would harm her sales.


So why change it? Was it to show the world that she was too good for my name?  Was it to mark a change in her life?

I really dont know what is in a name .. But I keep hearing the lines from Romeo and Juliet in my head.

The truth is ... there was a point when I loved a Mindy.  And when that Mindy changed into a Melinda she changed.  Maybe shes it for the better.  But I see it as a distinct moment in our relationship where she chose instead of a intimate relationship with me .. she chose to share personal information about me to other people in an effort to get them to align with her.  Melinda was born from my desire to try to get a marriage to succeed and from her desire to collect evidence against me.  Even when I did not have her as a friend on facebook she found a way to get on a freinds account and copy and save posts that I have made .. in the event she would need them in the future.

When someone starts threatening divorce.  The relationship is over.  When you move out ... the relationship is over.  When you start sharing personal information and secrets of an individual who trusted you completely with others half haphazardly the relationship is over.

 I see a change in her from Mindy to Melinda.  So I see them as two distinctly different individuals. I will always love that Mindy.  But it sickens me my children are forced to be raised my Melinda.